What do you notice in your physical body when you read the word Sex?
A tingling in your abdomen? A contraction in your heart?
Do you sense a longing, curiosity, adrenaline, or numbness?
Whatever it is, I am sure you are feeling things around Sex. And it makes perfect sense — because Sex is your origin. You emerged from the sexual union of two human beings.
Sex is your nature. It is your primal instinct.
Yet from the moment you are born, you are surrounded by a world that teaches you Sex is bad — even sinful.
You are told not to enjoy touching yourself, that it’s not what “good boys and girls” do.
Over time, you learn to hide your joy, your desire, your pleasure.
You become an ordinary, civilized man or woman, trained to “control” your animal instinct.
Why did patriarchy and spiritual institutions, thousands of years ago, separate matter from the divine?
What is the benefits from prohibiting and punishing the natural sexual instinct of human beings?
When you are made wrong for the most natural expression of your being and adapt to a repressed culture, you have an inner conflict.
And modern culture thrives on that conflict. Because you are lacking something. You are hungry. You feel ashamed. And therefore, you are easy to manipulate.
The capitalist–patriarchal system feeds on your sexual dissatisfaction.
It thrives as long as you keep buying things you don’t need, trying to numb the inner emptiness and conflict around Sex.
That’s why sex sells so well — in half-naked advertisements, in beauty products, in fashion, and beyond.
If no one initiates you into Sex, you likely educate yourself through pornography, movies, or magazines.
The message they teach is clear: Sex is about performance, not presence.
It’s about intensity, friction, and climax — a race toward orgasm, ideally achieved together.
Beyond these myths, modern culture seduces you into gender stereotypes promising attraction and success in finding a partner who wants to have Sex with you.
As a woman, you are manipulated from an early age to believe your worth and desirability depend on how closely your body resembles Barbie — the “perfect” woman.
You are trained to disconnect from your inner sense of beauty, to perceive yourself from the outside, to compare, correct, and control your body.
As a man, you are equally conditioned.
You learn to see women through the lens of perfection — to comment on her belly fat, make jokes about her messy hair, to compare, to objectify.
Your brain becomes wired to respond to the image of a woman rather than the experience of her.
You are seduced by the most exciting, most promising packaging.
So when you finally meet in bed, as a woman you may not relax or open fully, wondering, Am I attractive enough?
And as a man, you may struggle to truly love her, because you’ve been trained to relate to her as an object.
Following these cultural idols and experiencing the inner conflict of desire and repression you may have found yourself in frustration, loneliness, or depression.
Your physical body might respond to your sex life with pain, numbness, or dissociation.
You may have asked yourself, What’s wrong with me? Why can’t I enjoy Sex?
This is the moment of choice — to give up on Sex, or to walk through the doorway that your pain reveals.
What if your experience isn’t wrong, but a natural result of modern culture that would collapse if you unlocked the power of Real Sex?
What if you simply haven’t been shown another way?
What if your pain is powerful fuel — a call to enter authentic adulthood initiations, reclaiming your center from patriarchy, awakening the wisdom of your four feelings, and discovering the true size of your Being?
What if you could release past sexual and emotional memories through emotional healing processes and become fully present with what is?
What if you could ignite your conscious anger and take a stand for the depth of intimacy and love your Being truly longs for in Sex?
What if you left behind the fantasy worlds patriarchy offers you about Sex and began navigating intimacy through your conscious feelings?
What if you declare Sex to be a Dojo for Love, Evolution, Healing, Transformation and archetypal collaboration between the initiated feminine and masculine?
What if you were so deeply nourished and fed in Love and Sex that you no longer needed to consume beyond the essential?
What if modern culture no longer had power over you?
What new culture would you create?